The one Simple Thing that is the Difference between Burnout and Brilliance, Confusion and Clarity.
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The one Simple Thing that is the Difference between Burnout and Brilliance, Confusion and Clarity.

What if the most powerful thing you could master right now… isn’t doing more?

We live in an age where attention is the most valuable and the most misused currency. Everyone is competing for it, measuring it, and mistaking its presence for significance. But true attention, the kind that refines rather than inflates, is something altogether different. At its essence, attention is energy. It’s the way we signal importance to ourselves

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How Tradition can become a comfort and a crutch
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How Tradition can become a comfort and a crutch

Traditions are the rivers of memory. From the Orisas of Yoruba lands, to the breath-centered discipline of Yoga, to the indigenous Andean vision of Sumak Kawsay, each tradition carries the encoded wisdom of how to live well, not only as individuals,

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A Peaceful way of Living: Sometimes Everything Doesn’t Have to Be Okay to be Peaceful with Life
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A Peaceful way of Living: Sometimes Everything Doesn’t Have to Be Okay to be Peaceful with Life

Through My Personal Growth: A New Moon Offering

Over the past decade, through deep personal growth and the expansion of my conscious awareness, I’ve come to embody something that has fundamentally shifted the way I live:

Life doesn’t have to be “okay” for there to be peace.

This isn’t just a mental realisation—it’s a lived truth. Even in the presence of life's deepest challenges, we can still experience calm, joy, playfulness, humour, love, and serenity. Yes, even bliss.

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Forgiveness as Freedom: A Compassionate Way to Heal and Rise
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Forgiveness as Freedom: A Compassionate Way to Heal and Rise

The Healing Power of Forgiveness: Releasing Blame and Reclaiming Your Sovereignty

What if the key to unlocking your freedom, peace, and power was within you all along? What if the path to healing—true healing—began with a simple, yet profoundly transformative choice: forgiveness?

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Aderanti - The Healing Power of Emotional and Self Validation
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Aderanti - The Healing Power of Emotional and Self Validation

As I curated this message, I wept.

Not with weakness, but with a release so deep my soul was set free—
Free from all the years it believed it was broken.
Free from the moments it was called too much.
Free from the silent wounds of being misjudged, misunderstood, and misplaced.

The pain was real.

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The One Day Story……..
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The One Day Story……..

IT GOES LIKE THIS…………………..

One day I will be good enough and I will do that thing I always wanted to do. One day I will finally have the courage to go after that job have always wanted to go for. One day

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